Combatting Loneliness in Feminization Callers
Posted on July 22, 2008
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One thing I notice with many of my feminization callers is the loneliness they feel much of the time. Those who go out dressed and make friends with people who appreciate their dressing seem to experience fewer bouts of loneliness.
As a phone sex Mistress, I find it very enjoyable to talk with sissies, cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders. They love to please and will go to great lengths to do so. I also find that many are “super-femme” to the point where they see themselves as the final bastion of femininity where slips and corsets are standard items of clothing and slacks and low-heeled shoes are rarely worn. This intense femininity can also tend to segregate them, making them more likely to experience bouts of loneliness.
There are organizations for feminization folks and I usually recommend that my callers “Google” for these groups in their area. They are a source of socialization, community and possible friends for my lonely caller.
Calls with a Mistress are also a great source of combating loneliness, though the effect may be short-lived. LDW Group also offers a free chat room and message board for sissies, cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders. We have a special instructional site, sissyville.com as well.
Most recently, Mistress Scarlett decided to host World Sissy Day on August 16, 2008, as a celebration for all sissies. I’m sure cross-dressers, transvestites and transgenders will be welcome as well. Keep your eye on the message board at SissySchool.com and on the Mistresses blogs for more announcements and information as the date draws near. We hope as many as possible will join to celebrate this day. If it’s a big success, Ms. Scarlett just might be convinced to turn it into an annual event.
As part of World Sissy Day celebration, if my feminization callers will contact me, I will be working on special assignments for you to do either that day or sometime during the week before the big celebration.
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The Fascination of the Cuckold Fantasy
Posted on July 20, 2008
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One of the top fetishes requested by callers is the cuckold fantasy. Some callers are in a cuckold relationship. Others have been in one in the past. Still others wish their spouse would cuckold them. However, there are other callers who are unmarried, don’t have a steady girlfriend and never have who are still fascinated by the cuckold fantasy.
As a phone sex Mistress, I have fun with cuckold fantasy calls no matter the status of the caller. However, I’m always interested in what creates interest in the cuckold fantasy in men who do not and have not had a committed relationship. For some, it appears to have somewhat of a forced bisexuality aspect, since they love being forced to fluff their imaginary partner’s lover. However, they still crave that cream pie as well, which creates a stronger sense of their own masculinity. Since he is unable to properly satisfy his imaginary partner, he must assist her lover in doing so.
I’ve had several such callers who enjoyed the idea of being tied up and forced to watch as their imaginary partner enjoys multiple lovers—all inevitably larger and more adept than the caller. Where my caller could never hope to satisfy his partner, the lovers all are able to do so. Since he is tied, he must watch without being able to stroke himself.
A slight variation on the bondage cuckold scene is when the caller is chained in another room, with some type of speaker system set up so he can hear his imaginary partner and her lover(s) as they enjoy each other. For these men, imagining what is happening is more exciting that watching would be.
As a Mistress, I enjoy working with cuckold callers of all varieties. Give me a call to experience my unique approach to the cuckold fantasy.
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Tease & Denial or Guided Masturbation – Which One Is for You?
Posted on July 19, 2008
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I have lots of callers who call for cock control. For some, that means they want tease and denial. However, for many, what they really want is guided masturbation. By asking a few simple questions in the course of a quick interview at the start of the session, I can determine whether they are ready to experiment with tease and denial or whether they prefer to stick with guided masturbation.
As a Mistress, I’m not confused by this apparent dichotomy because I realize that both tease and denial and guided masturbation require controlling that cock. In fact, I utilize many of the same techniques for guided masturbation callers as I do for tease and denial callers. The primary difference is the end result. Guided masturbation callers eventually experience that release. Tease and denial callers are most usually denied release, left frustrated and panting with instructions on how to stroke between sessions with me.
Left to their own devices, most men would stroke hard and fast and cum in three minutes or less. Fortunately, a lot of them want to experience the increased pleasure they can achieve when they stroke slower and longer and let the good feelings build well beyond what they normally do. Now I am controlling their cock instead of their cock controlling them. And, I am also teaching them to control their own cock, something most of them have not been able to do successfully.
As a phone sex Mistress, I enjoy working with both tease and denial callers and guided masturbation callers. It’s fun to see a caller start out only able to last for a few minutes under my instructions and increase to the point where he can last an hour or longer. The joy and wonder in the voice of a caller who has achieved that high level of pleasure is something I love to hear. Hope you’ll call me soon and start on your journey to the ultimate pleasure.
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CBT Sessions with Feminization Callers
Posted on July 14, 2008
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As a phone sex Mistress, I have lots of callers who love CBT, one of my specialties. Feminization callers also call me for CBT sessions. These callers are not usually seeking the same type of CBT training as my usual callers, nor do they want the slow buildup of pain to the ultimate finish that my other CBT callers want.
For most feminization callers, CBT is all about hurting the cock and balls. I sometimes suspect they are hoping for damage so they have a solid medical reason to have them removed. As a Mistress, I am not going to have them doing things that will cause that level of damage, but I can tell that’s what they really want.
Lots of these feminization callers hate their cock and balls. They want to be rid of them but most cannot afford the lengthy and expensive process for sexual reassignment surgery. So they settle for second best, which is causing as much pain to those areas as possible. I have one caller who asked women to knee or kick him in the balls. He reveled in the pain this caused him and enjoyed the residual pain over the next few days.
Still other callers go for other ballbusting techniques: hammering their balls, pressing them between two hard surfaces and pounding on them, slamming them in door jambs. One such caller tied his balls to a friend’s bicycle and had the friend ride off. The caller chased after the bicyclist, screaming in pain and finally did pull the slipknot his friend had insisted upon. This shows you the level of hate such callers have for their genitals.
As a responsible Mistress, I cannot and do not recommend that callers do any of these things without being supervised by a Mistress. Your Mistress will telll you to take the proper precautions to avoid injury. What I have learned about such callers is, if they really want to lose their genitals they will find a way to accomplish that. They are calling me for pain—not for damage. I keep it at that level and do not go beyond.
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Are You Ready for Your CBT Session?
Posted on July 13, 2008
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As a phone sex Mistress, I frequently get calls from men who want a hardcore, very painful CBT session. Since this is one of my specialties, I am pleased to hear this. Then I ask them, “What toys do you have available for today’s session?” Too many times, with someone calling me for the first time, the answer is, “Nothing, Mistress.” Occasionally, they will say they have a shoe lace or some string, perhaps a rubber band.
Now, I’m good at CBT—very good. But, creating their requested “hardcore, very painful” CBT session with so little is not possible. Certainly, I can help them find household items to create an acceptable CBT session, though the level of pain will be highly determined by what items they are able to find.
So, if you’re looking for a Mistress to provide a hardcore, very painful CBT experience, here is a list of items you should have available:
· Clothespins – 40 to 50 of them
· Nipple clamps – clover clamps are best
· Several long taper candles that drip wax
· Matches or lighter
· 9 volt batteries
· Icy-Hot or BenGay
· Workboots or military boots with laces
· 4 quart bottles of water
· Ice cubes
· Dildo
· Scrub brush, metal bristles are best, 2” by 4” good size
· Bowl of water
· Cock flogger
· Wooden paddle, studded is preferable
· Large black binder clamps, 30-50 of them
· Ball weights, if you have them
· Sounds, must be sterilized in autoclave prior to use
If you have all these things, I can promise you the painful session you desire. If you have most of them, we can still do pretty well. The most important thing to bring is your own mind and belief that we will create a great CBT session for you. So, get everything ready and prepare to moan, scream and cry in pain, to beg me for mercy. You’ll be glad you did!
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Small Penis Guys and their Problems
Posted on July 12, 2008
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Let’s face it, guys with teensie tinsie little dickies (aka “small penis”) have lots of problems. As a phone sex Mistress, I speak with lots of callers who have very small dicks. The stories they tell are rife with humiliating events beginning at a young age and continuing to the present time.
One caller tells of being surrounded by the other boys in his gym class and teased and laughed at for his very tiny equipment, ending with all of the horny 13 year olds wanking all over him. While this is a bit more extreme that the humiliation reported by most callers, it is a primary place for these little dicked guys to be humiliated.
As they begin to mature, the problems become even worse. Whether they’re attracted to women or men, they have great difficulty finding anyone to form a relationship with. Women don’t want guys with tiny little dicks. Of course, if he is a multi-millionaire and is willing to spend lots of money on the clothes, houses, cars, trips and his wife’s studs, he just might find someone to marry him. Absent that, he’s likely to be laughed at and walked out on during dates. If a woman does decide to marry him, it’s not likely to be long before she finds a lover who can take care of her sexual needs.
For the small dicked guy who is attracted to men, the problem is possibly even more difficult. Gay guys are not known for wanting small dicked lovers, even submissive lovers. Most gay guys do not want a lover who cross-dresses or is a sissy. They are attracted to men, not women. Thus, the feminized small dicked guy is of little interest to most gay guys.
Certainly, there are exceptions which prove this rule for gays, just as there are for the straight guys. Sometimes older gay men, or those with strong BDSM fetishes, might seek a small dicked submissive man for a relationship. However, as with the straight guys (who need to be multi-millionaires to have their arm candy), there is a very small group of possibilities.
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Cuckold Fantasy Sessions – Part 2
Posted on July 6, 2008
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In my last post I discussed cuckold sessions with callers who wish their partners would cuckold them. Today, I want to explore sessions with callers who are actually living in a cuckold relationship. As a phone sex Mistress, I enjoy working with callers who wish they were being cuckolded as well as those who are being cuckolded.
One huge difference I note with callers who are in a cuckold relationship is that their partners are naturally dominant and/or sexually aggressive. Whether or not the caller originally wanted a cuckolf relationship, he is now living in one. I have several callers living on cuckold relationships.
One caller greatly enjoys the bi-sexual aspects of cuckolding. He can hardly wait to fluff his wife’s lover and enjoys those occasions when he is permitted to suck the lover to completion. He gets great enjoyment from knowing that his wife is getting a great sexual experience, one which he could not provide her.
Another caller is facing the possibility of his wife moving her lover into the house. Most of their sexual experiences are outside the house, which means my caller doesn’t often get a chance to be present. He has accepted that as an obedient cuckold husband he will be expected to fluff his wife’s lover. It’s something he has had difficulty coming to terms with, but now has accepted and, in some ways, he looks forward to it as a means of showing his wife and her lover what a good cuckold husband he has become.
The permutations are endless, but the results are a three-way cuckold relationship in which each person gets what they want. As a Mistress I enjoy working with all varieties of Cuckold callers.
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Cuckold Fantasy Sessions – Part 1
Posted on July 5, 2008
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There are two types of cuckold callers. One wishes his partner were cuckolding him, the other has a partner who is cuckolding him. The differences between the two are very distinct.
I am asked on virtually a daily basis how my feminization or cuckold caller can get his wife or girlfriend to cuckold him. As a Mistress, the best I can offer is to ask questions about my caller’s partner. Most particularly, I need to know if his partner is dominant, if she is sexually aggressive.
In the vast majority of these cases, my caller’s partner is neither dominant nor sexually aggressive. This, in essence, means my caller’s wish to be cuckolded is pretty much doomed. He has managed to find a partner who is at least as submissive as he is, and perhaps even more so.
Calling a phone sex Mistress has been his only outlet for reliving his cuckold fantasy desires. He calls, describing what he wishes his partner would do. The scenarios differ somewhat in the set up, but the end is almost always him watching as his partner has sex with her lover. The lover’s stamina and ability are always greater than his own. His partner reaches heights of satisfaction with her lover that she never reached with him.
Sometimes he is granted permission to fluff the lover, sometimes he is allowed to clean his partner after the lover has climaxed in her. Sometimes his partner tells him she will be moving her lover into the bedroom permanently and my caller will be relegated to the guest bedroom. Again, these specifics vary from caller to caller.
My goal is to make the cuckold fantasy experience as realistic as possible for my callers. For callers who are not in a cuckold relationship and wish they were, this may be their best option for satisfaction.
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Combining Tease & Denial with CBT Training
Posted on July 4, 2008
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While most callers may not wish to combine tease and denial training with anything else, some truly love CBT training. As a phone sex Mistress, I have a lot of fun with such callers. Most of my regular readers know I just LOVE doing CBT sessions. However, I also enjoy tease and denial. So, combining two such enjoyable sessions into one caller is always enjoyable.
What I have found is that the lighter aspects of CBT are actually the “tease” for the tease and denial portion of the session. The pinching and clamping of the nipples, spanking, tying up the balls all contribute to the tease. I like to add a bit of light body stroking along the way just to get the nerve endings nicely excited.
When you think about it, tease and denial and CBT are easy to combine because they both focus on the stimulation of nerve endings. And most CBT callers hope to be given permission to cum toward the end of their call. Like tease and denial callers, they are not guaranteed a release. When I am combining both techniques in one session, then I am working with a denial caller who is not permitted to cum unless/until I give him permission to do so. This eliminates use of one of my very favorite severe pain techniques, because that technique requires a release. However, it’s also fun to deny the caller over and over and then use that technique when I finally permit the release.
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Blending Fantasy and Reality in BDSM Fetish Sessions – Part 2
Posted on June 30, 2008
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In the last post I began discussing how BDSM fetish callers can sometimes blend fantasy and reality so well that it is difficult for me, as their Mistress, to discern which is which. A long time feminization caller recently came out with a surprising revelation about his life. It was difficult for me to decide whether it was reality or fantasy.
This information gave me a huge insight into much of what this caller has said in the past. On a number of occasions, he has admitted that certain events to described were fantasies, things he wished had happened. Thinking back on some of those occasions, I asked him about his failure to mention the older brother. In a way, I wondered if perhaps he was now fantasizing an older brother who had been treated to a superior education and been favored by his father while my caller was feminized by his mother. According to my caller, the brother became a lawyer, even though my caller described him as not being smart because he couldn’t do math. He said he had little contact with his brother and no desire for contact.
After careful inquiry, I decided that my caller possibly does have an older brother. If so, it’s likely that he might resent that brother in some way for having been removed from his mother and permitted to develop normally, rather than being feminized by the mother.
If my assumption is correct, it’s likely my caller realized that his brother was being given something special by their father, something my “mommy’s girl” caller would never receive.
The possibility of an older brother is a little light opening into the possibility that my caller may decide to spend less time in his childhood fantasies and more in the reality of life. In the past, he has been unable to take even small steps toward realizing any childhood fantasy. Perhaps this might lead to the first step of turning part of that fantasy into reality. As a phone sex Mistress, I find that to be an intriguing development.
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